Haiz…why is there always these kind of 困ってる moments? This time it’s about dance. I guess people like to see them do something that is totally unlike them.
From his reply, I gather that it’s not that he doesn’t have a fun(ny) side to him, but that side is not just for everyone. Introverts have their circle(s) of people. The widest circle is what everyone sees. The innermost is reserved only for the closest of people. I say, it’s the people you have the most trust in. The people you can freely let go of every reservation you have and go crazy with. For me, that’s my sis and maybe 7ners. I will dare to do the most siao things with my sis. Like that jumpy thing across the pedestrian crossing coz I know she will never judge me for being childish or laugh at me for doing stupid things.
So bro, just do you. It’s your stage. If you wanna do it, do it. If you don’t want to, that’s fine too.
At the end of the day, you can give yourself to others, but don’t forget to leave some of yourself…for yourself. You can’t be giving all of yourself to others and run on empty for yourself. –> I guess this is a reminder to myself too. Been emotionally down for a while now and just…well, surviving. But, that’s another story for another day.
