kangae

How I Have Changed

I read some of my old blog posts last night and cringe~~~ I don’t think I had the capacity to think deeply back then or maybe I just didn’t want to. The posts were very “on the surface”, describing daily happenings. This happened first, then this happened next. I caught myself saying in a few posts that I’m generally a…

Read More

k-ongaku, kangae

Kids and Fangirling

I’ve seen it at least three times now. A Taiwanese mum having to explain her stand with regard to her girls’ fangirling and feeling defeated each time. I gave it some thought as like her, I have two young girls and what if one day, my girls decided to fangirl as well. A bit of background information. This mum has…

Read More

misc

Something I Look Forward To

I’ve been keeping the Diaryland Daily Prompts page open on my laptop in case I ever feel like answering a prompt and I guess today’s the day. This prompt was actually for yesterday, but I’ll answer it anyway. What is something you always look forward to, no matter how many times it happens? My birthday. It’s the day I get…

Read More

kangae

My Bias Isn’t Random?

I stumbled upon an IG post that led me to the quiz on my bias match. According to Cadena Laksis, who is a psychology graduate and relationship pattern analyst, she says that how we choose our KPop bias is not a random thing. It is something deeper that hits the core of what and who we are. This was my…

Read More

misc

Build a House

Did this a while back. Asked ChatGPT to build a house based on what it knew about me. I must say, this is quite a luxurious home. So big! Lots of cozy corners where I can think and be myself. I really like that creative corner for content creation work and that quiet corner for reading and reflecting…and of course,…

Read More

kangae

You Are Not My Safe Space Anymore

I used to be able to tell you freely what’s on my mind… But not anymore. You are not my safe space anymore. I have to weigh my words in my mind before I tell you anything, lest you get angry. Sometimes I think it’s safe and tell you something, but end up getting yelled at instead. It’s tiring and…

Read More

k-ongaku, kangae

Be Kind with Your Words

I’m not an ENGENE but I know the recent ongoings through threads. A Japanese fan, Mina committed suicide after being cyber bullied. Didn’t help that the idol was dragged into this mess as fans (or anti-fans?) blamed him for what happened coz he went on a live to address certain fan actions. Long story short, people linked what he said…

Read More

kangae

What a Mummy Wants

Was looking at a friend’s pictures of her newborn and suddenly this topic came to mind. Some mummies receive what is known as a “push present”, a gift from the hubby to acknowledge her tough time delivering the baby. It’s usually a ring (some form of jewelry) or a branded bag…just something expensive. Well, obviously I never received anything like…

Read More

misc

My Life as a Movie

Another one of those ChatGPT trends. I asked ChatGPT to imagine my life as a movie and what would the poster look like. I guess I keep taking solo pics of myself for IG work that ChatGPT thinks I’m single. But I do love the theme and description. ChatGPT is being rather kind to describe me as a work in…

Read More

misc

Fixed the Issue

Fixed the issue on why the “About Me” page would load ok on a laptop browser, but not on a phone browser. Yes, the IT nerd me had to come out and do debugging. Copied the content bit by bit to find the problem. Turned out it was the ‘at’ symbol. Whether it is used by itself or in a…

Read More