I finally let out what I have been keeping inside all these years. Thanks to a letter from LTA. The letter was supposed to have a NETS Motoring card attached, but the card wasn’t included. It wasn’t just us, a friend also said she received the same letter without the card. I told KS that someone’s head was about to…
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Make It Your Own
I’ve been thinking about this ever since I received the message. I replied to at least choose a mix of songs (as a compromise) or just go with what he likes to make it the best representation of himself. But, I have so much more thoughts about it. 我有话要讲。I need to air these thoughts else it will just stew inside…
A Show or Book I Might Do Again
Diaryland writing prompt which I thought was worth giving a go. What is a show or book you would happily start over from the beginning? Hmmm…for show or rather, movie, I want to watch “A Walk to Remember” again coz the story is so simple and beautiful. The songs Mandy Moore sang for the movie were so iconic. And if…
How I Have Changed
I read some of my old blog posts last night and cringe~~~ I don’t think I had the capacity to think deeply back then or maybe I just didn’t want to. The posts were very “on the surface”, describing daily happenings. This happened first, then this happened next. I caught myself saying in a few posts that I’m generally a…
Kids and Fangirling
I’ve seen it at least three times now. A Taiwanese mum having to explain her stand with regard to her girls’ fangirling and feeling defeated each time. I gave it some thought as like her, I have two young girls and what if one day, my girls decided to fangirl as well. A bit of background information. This mum has…
My Bias Isn’t Random?
I stumbled upon an IG post that led me to the quiz on my bias match. According to Cadena Laksis, who is a psychology graduate and relationship pattern analyst, she says that how we choose our KPop bias is not a random thing. It is something deeper that hits the core of what and who we are. This was my…
You Are Not My Safe Space Anymore
I used to be able to tell you freely what’s on my mind… But not anymore. You are not my safe space anymore. I have to weigh my words in my mind before I tell you anything, lest you get angry. Sometimes I think it’s safe and tell you something, but end up getting yelled at instead. It’s tiring and…
Be Kind with Your Words
I’m not an ENGENE but I know the recent ongoings through threads. A Japanese fan, Mina committed suicide after being cyber bullied. Didn’t help that the idol was dragged into this mess as fans (or anti-fans?) blamed him for what happened coz he went on a live to address certain fan actions. Long story short, people linked what he said…
What a Mummy Wants
Was looking at a friend’s pictures of her newborn and suddenly this topic came to mind. Some mummies receive what is known as a “push present”, a gift from the hubby to acknowledge her tough time delivering the baby. It’s usually a ring (some form of jewelry) or a branded bag…just something expensive. Well, obviously I never received anything like…
The Saddest Song Ever
I thought I had written before why I thought “Shadow of Love” is the saddest song ever. Seems not. So, here goes… There are so many sad songs out there, a good number on break ups and the aftermath, but this one is on longing. The longing to be with someone, to have someone to hold on to. My previous…